How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 09:47
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Is it because Trump is impulsive that he is never on time?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
That's it for today.
How does Arab culture and values differ from western culture and values?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why is the band Nickelback unliked so much?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Why do men like low maintenance women?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Have you ever answered your door in lingerie?
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What are your darkest taboo confessions?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).